
I have been thinking of a dear friend today so I thought I would write a little about her. This is a mission story, so if anyone is tired of hearing mission stories, you can surely pass this up, but if you want to learn about an amazing woman, feel free to continue reading! Michelle was to say the least, an interesting person when we met her. I was serving in London, KY with Sisters Dixon and Galliano, we were out delivering some media one day and drove past a road out in the middle of nowhere! Sister Dixon mentioned that she thought there was a member who lived on that road and so I spent the rest of the car ride to our appointment looking through the ward list to see if I could find someone who lived on that road. I finally found it and on the way home we decided to stop by and visit the member. We drove all the way to the end of the road and that was where we finally found the address we were looking for. We were a little hesitant if we should go down the long dark driveway, since we were out in the middle of nowhere Kentucky where people were known to shoot strangers on their property. We decided to proceed and when we got to the end of the driveway we found a lone trailer. When the car came to a stop we were surrounded by several large dogs. We slowly got out of the car and a man came out on the front steps of the trailer. He called to the dogs and then said, "Sisters, how nice to see you, come on in!" We were shocked, this man knew who we were even though we showed up unannounced and we had never met him before! We went into this humble home and there met Grizz and Judy and their guests, Tony and Michelle. They were all glad to see us and welcomed us warmly. They had been working on some quilts they were making for Christmas presents and they were having trouble with the sewing machines. They asked if any of us knew anything about sewing machines, I said I knew a little and I got to work on trying to fix one of the sewing machines. Sister Galliano and Sister Dixon talked to them and found out that Judy was a member, Grizz was not and didn't ever plan to be but supported the ideals of the church. Tony and Michelle lived up the street and were good friends with Judy and Grizz. They also had a 13 year old daughter Stephanie. They were worried about Stephanie and some of the friends she had and the direction she was going in life. Judy and Grizz had told them what a great youth program our church had and wanted them to get Stephanie involved. We set an appointment to go teach Stephanie, however Michelle and Tony would also be there. We left with high hopes of bringing this family to the gospel. When we got to their home for our appointment Michelle informed us that she had made us dinner because Judy had told her how little money missionaries had and she loved to cook for people. We started the evening teaching what we called the Timeline discussion. They all seemed slightly disinterested in the message that we were sharing, which getting any sort of focus from them was a challenge because there were so many dogs in their tiny trailer that you had to step over at least 2 just to get from the front door to the couch. Anyway, we taught the discussion and Michelle seemed to be the most interested in what we were sharing with them. At the end of the discussion one of my companions asked Michelle if she would commit to being baptized. Well, Michelle didn't take that too well and told us that we would have dinner and then we would never be allowed back into their home. We calmly asked her if she would pray about it and she agreed and we set another appointment to come back to teach them. We had dinner and ended the evening quite peacefully. We continued to teach the family but Stephanie was having a hard time grasping what we taught them and Tony just wasn't interested in what we had to say. He mostly sat quietly and listened but we could tell that he wasn't accepting what we were teaching. Michelle on the other had, had plenty of questions and we were able to answer all of them. She had gone to just about every type of church there was and had asked basically all of the same questions of all of them. When they got tired of trying to answer her questions she stopped going. She had been baptized 3-4 times in different churches and it took her a while before she understood why she needed to get baptized again. We had promised at our first appointment that we would never mention the "B" word in her home again and we pretty much kept to that promise. We worked with her to help her quit smoking, which her family had strong objections to because she had tried before and became a very unpleasant person to be around! Well, we never saw any issues with her attitude or behavior, in fact she seemed to go the other direction and became more pleasant. Just before Sister Galliano was to go back to Temple Square we attended a Relief Society Enrichment meeting. At the end of the lesson they asked who would like to volunteer to bring food for the next month's meeting, Michelle was the first to raise her hand. We knew at that point that she was ready to be baptized. Sister Dixon and I approached her and asked her if she would be baptized on Sunday, without hesitation she agreed. We quickly set the plans in motion and continued to prepare her for her baptism in a few days. That Sunday was a beautiful day! Michelle was so happy, which was somewhat of an unusual characteristic for her. When she came up out of the water she let out a "hoot" of joy. Afterward she walked around the church as if she was walking on clouds. She came up to me and said "Sister Richardson, I feel so perky! I am not a perky person! But I think I like it!" From that day on, whenever we saw Michelle she was generally a more happy person! When she had questions she would ask, and search out the answers. She was so wonderful! I could probably write an entire book about Michelle and all of the great experiences I had with her!
About a year after we started teaching Michelle and her family,and a couple of days after I cam home from my mission, Michelle was killed in a car accident. I miss her tons and I can't wait until the day I get to see her again and rejoice in our reunion!